Don't Bring It to Work: Breaking the Family Patterns That Limit Success

Acknowledgments xi

Introduction xv

Part One: The Home-Work Connection

1 Relationships at Work and at Home 3

2 Understanding Behavior at Work and at Home 20

3 Understanding Workplace Crises and Conflicts 43

Part Two: The Way Out: Observe, Understand, and Transform Your Patterns

4 The Thirteen Most Common Destructive Patterns in the Workplace 69

5 Going Deep: Exploring the History of Your Family Patterns 102

Part Three: A New Me, A New You, A New Organization

6 Defining a More Authentic You at Work 133

7 Talking Together 168

8 Connecting the Dots 190

Appendix 207

Notes 211

About the Author 217

Index 219